Habit vs Freewill
How many of our habitual behaviors were first deployed when we were children, too innocent and under-equipped to defend against, deflect or rationalize an emotional upheaval? How many of those habits are no longer appropriate at all? How many of those habits are not the most effective response to every encounter that smells like the seminal upheaval? God gave us freewill. Reflexive habit precludes using freewill. Which of our habits erect barriers between us and God?